Girls in relationships with guys because it’s fun. Guys having casual sex with girls because it’s fun. People breaking up because they can’t force the other person to be what they want them to be.
It’s a wonder how anyone makes a relationship work!

It seems to be getting worse too. I mean, in my parents generation, people had some breakups. But looking at my generation, it’s almost like a fad. “Oh yeah I dated her…not really sure how long, might have ummm…a week?”. Why even bother? It seems to me that we don’t even bother getting to know a person before we are suddenly in a “relationship” with them! Then well…it’s kinda fun and has “benefits” so why break it off? Besides, she knows it’s not “serious”! Well whats the point if it’s not serious! Maybe just be friends in the first place? Then you probably wouldn’t get to the point where you ever needed to break up. You might even become best friends forever. Makes a lot more sense to me than a temporary relationship.

I look at my grandparents generation, and when they got married that way it. I’ve been told that the mentality back then was more along the lines of, “this is my life and I choose to share it with you”. Not “You make me happy, and when that stops I’m finding someone else to make me happy”. Problems are always going to come into life. But it’s not a problem, it’s LIFE. Work it out people, start enjoying life instead of seeing it as a series of problems. I refuse to believe that relationship is supposed to make my life “easier”. Great, now I just have to find someone who is shares my beliefs and is single sigh.